4. loving? and being loved?

"Is it easier to be loving or to be loved?"

Some people say being loved is very easy, some people say being loved is harder now because of societies standards of what is beautiful i.e. body image, makeup, fashion choices etc... But I say being loved is easier for most then being loving. Being loved is simple, being loved is not up to you its up to the person who has decided to love you. When someone doesn't love you or doesn't anymore its not you, you have done nothing and some people say that because you have done nothing is the reason that they are no longer there. That is not right and is not true. when someone leaves or never attempts in the first place to love you. Its not you. Its them, they have given up on themselves, not on you. They have left something wonderful they might never find again, they have accepted that they are not good enough to stick around. When people have told them they can't fight the biggest battle in life, they have gone ahead and accepted that for fact, they have not enough spirit to fight and prove people wrong. They are not strong or powerful enough to keep up with your spirt that accepts what it is and who they are, capable to feel the biggest emotion of them all. love. Because being loved is easy, loving is something only the strongest, most powerful, self-determined and confident spirits are capable of. Loving is hard, loving is tough, you get hurt. BUT you have to be strong to feel it, to fight for it you have to be a warrior you have to be the captain of your soul, be a driver not a passenger. Loving is harder but being loved hurts more.