17. Getting over it all

relationships can be a great thing to be a part of, but some people are really just not meant for you. I guess only one relationship you are in will never end, and that's the person you will be with forever, the one. Some people find "the one" way faster then others and for some people it takes more time. In the mean time you just have to keep searching and with searching comes many of the duds you will encounter along the way. Some will be harder to get over then others and some will leave a larger memory written on your mind then others. I think the most important thing is, for me, that you just have to remember that you are worth way more then how you feel right now. If I was going to give any advice I would give this: you are the most important person in all of this. I'm not going to waste time telling you how to get over someone and how to make yourself feel better because you will do that all in your own time, but I am going to tell you to just remember that you are important and that you need to just keep your needs in mind at all times. I promise you it will get better.

16. girls posts

So, its really amazing that you love your body. I love that you're confident enough to post picture of yourself have naked and I love that you feel like its okay to put up posts of yourself posing on the beach because I sure came onto my social media to see that. To see you with your perfect body on show. You say your just having some fun with your friends, you get defensive and tell me to stop calling you names like a slut but in reality you know I'm not. I'm not saying any of those things. More people then you may think are going to see this, not just your friends and that boy your hopping will notice you if you show a little more skin. Its great that you have what society says is the "perfect body type" it really is. You have no idea how a simple picture is effecting another girls self-essteem, how its making them hate there body more. I also know you don't mean that, you don't wish that upon anyone, after all you're just having fun, Right? I see these pictures and think, my stomach is not that flat, by butts not that big and my thighs are bigger then hers maybe I should change. Its not cool, doing this is not cool. Your picture is just capturing a moment, one you wish to remember but THINK, your body is a personal thing I can't tell you what to wear or what to put on the internet but I can say this: I know you wear what you want  but do you really need to put it up on the internet so I and others see it everywhere we go making us feel self-conscious and uncomfortable? Wear it and work it, don't post it and share it. 

15. new years revolutions

I myself have never been one for making new years resolutions as I know all I'm going to do is write in that diary for one week and give it up/loose it. I'll say I'm going on a diet but I'll eat the pizza we ordered last night cold new years day (all of which have happened in the past!) So, this year I've decided to make a new years resolution that I think I will keep pretty well. Its a resolution witch dosent take to much time, it doesn't have the pressure of something like a diet, it doesn't involve giving anything up or taking anything away. Sounds perfect right. A stress free, no pressure simple jet very effective step that can improve your daily life in a way nothing else can. So, this year my new years resolution is to spend more time on me. This year is going to be a me year. Now I don't mean giving up talking to or being with anyone else I just mean I'm going to cut out all the un-nessersary arguments, debates and other nonsense caused about caring about what others think and do to much. When something gets stressful I'll leave it. When I feel like I'm not doing something for me and I don't want to do that thing for any one sees that I care about I won't waste my time doing it or even thinking about it. In life sometimes you have to be a little bit vain and think about what is best for you in that situation, what will make you feel better and what will cause you the un-nesseray pain and other suffering on others behalf's that you don't need to feel. So this will be a me year, no more worrying about other peoples problems wether that me to do with me or not, no more stressing about what other people might say or do and most importantly no more caring about what that girl said or who is getting with your ex because I can say I'm leaving that in 2015 and starting afresh with the people that matter the most to me, care you join?