16. girls posts

So, its really amazing that you love your body. I love that you're confident enough to post picture of yourself have naked and I love that you feel like its okay to put up posts of yourself posing on the beach because I sure came onto my social media to see that. To see you with your perfect body on show. You say your just having some fun with your friends, you get defensive and tell me to stop calling you names like a slut but in reality you know I'm not. I'm not saying any of those things. More people then you may think are going to see this, not just your friends and that boy your hopping will notice you if you show a little more skin. Its great that you have what society says is the "perfect body type" it really is. You have no idea how a simple picture is effecting another girls self-essteem, how its making them hate there body more. I also know you don't mean that, you don't wish that upon anyone, after all you're just having fun, Right? I see these pictures and think, my stomach is not that flat, by butts not that big and my thighs are bigger then hers maybe I should change. Its not cool, doing this is not cool. Your picture is just capturing a moment, one you wish to remember but THINK, your body is a personal thing I can't tell you what to wear or what to put on the internet but I can say this: I know you wear what you want  but do you really need to put it up on the internet so I and others see it everywhere we go making us feel self-conscious and uncomfortable? Wear it and work it, don't post it and share it.